Tuesday, October 5, 2010
Day before Dark Moon
Uranus Retrograde
Neptune Retrograde
Jupiter Retrograde
Rainy and cool
And, of course, no heat, so, because of the damp, it feels even colder.
I couldn’t get my hair cut on Saturday, and, if I can’t find a place to get it cut before Friday, I can’t get it cut until November 18. Venus is retrograde from Friday until November 18 (when Jupiter also goes direct), and, trust me, you do NOT want to do any beauty procedures, including getting your hair cut, while Venus is retrograde! Also, if you’re in a relationship, make sure you really listen to each other and to what’s under what’s being said.
I unloaded on a local Senior Advocate about all the crap going on here, and he is looking into it. There is no reason my 86 year old mother, who has never missed or been late on a rent payment and has been an ideal tenant for 38 years in the same apartment, should be put through this torture.
Thanks Lara and Brenda, for the lovely book!
I put up a dozen books on BookMooch and 8 of them were mooched within an hour, so I’m making a big trip to the post office.
Almost all of yesterday was spent on listings and setting up appointments. One seemed too good to be true, and, of course, was. It was in an area that’s my fallback, but the house looked and sounded so good, I made an inquiry. Then I get an email about how it’s listed as a sale, but isn’t really, and this guy’s a volunteer in Africa and “can’t find” an agent to handle it — blah, blah, blah. Yeah, right, does he think I just fell off the turnip truck? “Scam” written all over it.
Another sounded perfect — a three year lease while the family is transferred overseas, but I actually know the company that they work for and it’s all legit — but the place is furnished. So THAT won’t work.
There were the possibilities that fell off the map pretty fast: “You have to get rid of one cat” (no, I don’t have to even look at your place), and another who expected me to get up at 3 AM and drive there in order to see the house before 7 AM instead of booking an appointment at that time the following day, when we’d actually be in the area. Then, there was the ad where they tell you how to speak over the phone to leave a message. All of these things are very telling, and they tell me that none of those places is the right match. A couple of agents offered to negotiate the multiple cat thing, but I said, look, either a landlord is pet friendly or not, and if something like that has to be negotiated from the get-go, neither of us will trust the other and the relationship is already strained from the start. It’s better to pass.
I don’t need fancy finishes — I’ve never been a finish whore. I need storage space, a room to write, a bit of a yard, and pet-friendly. In addition to the whole bedrooms and kitchen thing.
But almost all my slots are full for tomorrow, and most of Thursday’s slots are full, too. So, we’ll see what we come up with.
The stress is starting to manifest physically, along with the cold and the damp, so I’m trying really, really hard not to get sick.
Devon